20 things I would love to go back and tell my 20 year old self … on my 40th birthday.
1. Skipping meals makes you fat.
2. Perfect families are boring families.
3. You actually make yourself wealthier and more powerful when you can do basic skills such as cooking, car repair, sewing, and cleaning. Ignore the gender implications, saving money when you're young matters more.
4. You may think you have figured out where you stand with your faith, but the struggle never really ends.
5. $10,000 is not a lot of money.
6. College grades matter much less than experience and connections.
7. Make sure your moisturizer has SPF….and wear it every day.
8. Hold your best friends tight. It gets harder and harder to make true friends as you age.
9. Motivation happens through action, not before.
10. You look ridiculous riding a razor scooter with your kids when you are (almost) 40. But do it anyways because it is fun.
11. Less stuff, less stress.
12. Never waste an otherwise perfect day at the beach worrying about your back-thigh cellulite.
13. You can't convince love. So stop wasting your time and find the one who loves you with all of his heart. And (hint) he might be wearing nerdy glasses and a Stanford sweatshirt.
14. Eat all the ice cream you can. Because you might turn 40 and not be able to eat it anymore.
15. Run all the miles you can. Because you might turn 40 and it might become very painful.
16. Don't change your name when you marry. It doesn't make you less devoted to your husband or your family. Yes, it is purely symbolic. But symbols are important.
17. Don't listen to any person or any institution who tells you how to dress or otherwise appear. It is not okay.
18. The power of compounded interest over time is a real thing. There is nothing you think you need in your twenties that will be worth the compounded savings you will achieve in your forties and beyond.
19. Skinny jeans….not your best look.
20. Be patient with your siblings, they will someday be your very best friends. For reals.